Bootcut..... I'm a critical care RN. I've taken care of patients who have been in comas. And, while the longer someone is in a coma, the less hopeful the doctors are of a good recovery, I have seen many doctors nearly fall out of their socks when a patient woke up and made liars out of them... Do try to stimulate your daughter, and by this... I mean, read to her, and talk to her, almost continuously, telling her how much you love her, and that you know she's going to get better. I think positive affirmations help patients make a big effort to come out of the darkness. Play her favorite music and lay the device on her pillow at a nice soft tone where she can hear it without any problems. It will stimulate her brain. Tape family members telling their favorite jokes or stories. Laughter will sometimes make a smile show up on someone's face, even if they can't open their eyes. Hearing is something every patient I've ever seen in a coma and manages to come back...says..." I could hear you, but I just couldn't open my eyes". So, talk all you can to her. And, believe me. Doctors are NOT God... they are pessimists in the face of serious problems. And, while they are correct many times... I also know, they are wrong many times. I've seen many miracles... Don't give up on yours. Ask for what you want from God.. He tells us, that you have not because you ask not. I do know, that miracles happen every day. God is gracious, and loves each of us. None of us knows what the future holds. We can only trust that God knows it all...and what He wants for our lives. I pray for your daughter and for you and your family members. Having someone ill is very hard on everyone... Take care of yourself too... Trust is what God expects from us, and sometimes...its in the valleys that are so dark, that we are expected to trust the most. God holds you and your daughter in His hands. Turn everything over to His wisdom and love.. I believe you have to claim what you want, in the very face of what appears to be the opposite of your desires. The Bible says, "claim things as they should be, not as they are."... Hang in there..we all love you both!...and that's Power in Believing....and a blessing to believe without seeing... Shadow
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