Wanda, It is not easy....I lost my MOM on Dec 31, 2009 from a Brain Bleed. I found peace in knowing that the HOLY SPIRIT is not only with you at this time, but with the patient. Only the LORD knows when the journey ends, but he will never leave you alone. I know you pray, you have prayed for me...I have sent requests to all the Chaplains i am associated with to aid in Prayers in Peace, Tranquility, and Strength. Your daughter will be in my prayers. My heart goes out to you. Be strong !!

God always makes the right choices for us, as hard as it is for us to understand and accept at times. Trust in Him - He will do what is best for Neener.

Wanda, What a horrible decision to make, but it is in God's hands. I often ponder God's choices and the tribulations he puts us through, but my faith always remains strong as I know yours does, too. You are such a wonderful and loving mom and it breaks my heart that you are going through all this....I feel helpless and so wish I could do more to help. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family. Vickie

Wanda, it is not up to you and me. I would pray that if she comes back to be herself, then let it be, if not then let her go home. That is what I did with my sister this year and he chose the latter. I am glad he did because she couldn't be herself. Just pray that way and he will find the answer for you. You have been through so much yourself. I need to pray for the strength for you to come to the other side of this. Rose

Update: There are not enough words to express my thanks and gratitude to you all. On friday...geez...not sure what date that was..they all seem to flow together...the drs and nurses told us to say our good byes to Neener...she was dying...I aid by good byes and exited the hospital...was away for 3 hrs..when I returned Neener was still w/ us...drs have no idea why she is still w/ us....it was her will and gods will to not send her home yet... I talk to God daily...it is up to him and neener at this point...only response is blink of eyes...and ...not sure if thATS HER DOING IT ..OR...our minds telling us it is her... This is so hard to write.... I am trying so hard to positive ..but also...trying to be realistic... If this is the very bst Neener will get...is this what she wants...it can not be about MY wants... Again...please I beg..keep the prayers coming and ask God to do what is best for Neener..and not to let her be in this condition w/ out improvements...for my grandsons and the rest of our family.... Thank you all veryyyyyyyyyyyyyy much.. Wanda, Mike(husband) Kaleb(son11) Kaden(son6)I pray no family should have to be faced w/ this tradegy

Boot.... I haven't been on here much lately and just found this post ,,,,, I am sooo sorry and my heartfelt prayers are with you and your daughter ..... Jan in WV

Our times are in Our Father's hands. Our lives are not our own . . . and we have no inkling of when our jobs here on Earth will be done . . . but HE does . . . and NO ONE leaves before his/her job is done . . . Wanda, I pray you will each have the peace that only comes through knowing Him and trusting that He knows what He is doing. I pray that you will see signs that Neener feels the love of her friends and family. I ask the Father that He will surround you with His Love and confirm it to you in ways that you never expected. He loves Neener more than we can know and more than words can tell.

Wanda, love your heart!!! I was just told of this today!! my heart just ached for you..I dont have computer internet so had not been on es for quite some time...and was so shocked to hear this....know you are definately in my thought and prayers and will add you to my prayer group. If there is anything I can do...even to lend an ear...anything at all my friend..dont hesitate to call. Love you hon..hang in there, keep your faith and the lord will walk with you through this. Tammylee

Thinking of you Wanda and sending many prayers your way for you, for Neener, and for your family. May He provide you with a peace that truly passes all understanding and know that my heart is near to yours. Take good care my friend, Kim " My soul is weary with sorrow, strengthen me according to Your word " ~ Psalm 119:28

Wanda, just letting you know that prayers and hugs of support continue. Please let us know if we can help you in any way.