I'm coming late into all of this . . . don't come onto the site very often anymore. Mark (Frostbite) used to come into chat and fill me in on the latest news. He and Dakota used to banter quite a bit . . . sometimes kidding, sometimes getting "snippy." They had more in common with eachother than either one of them realized. They both loved people, had great senses of humor, had artistic spirits, and had the courage to step out of their comfort zones and reach for their dreams.
When faced with "your heart will only get worse without the surgery," they both took the step toward risky surgery . . . hoping to improve their quality of life so they could enjoy doing their favorite things and being with their favorite people. I regret not having said, "Good-bye," to Dakota, yet I know Mark has already said, "Howdy, Kota!" and that they are content that their jobs here on earth are finished . . . and they are waiting patiently and knowingly for us to finish our jobs here.
Breezy, your post touches my heart, and I know that what you say is true. I have found that relationships are the stuff of life. Without relationship, there is no reason for us to be here on earth. Kota maintained valuable friendships through this Equestrian Singles site. Mark and I met through this site because of the "introduction" by another member who has become a dear friend and who just spent time at the farm here in Kansas. The good relationships we gain through honestly sharing our hearts in writing through this site, are true and good when they are continued "in person." The key is "honestly share our hearts." Dakota was genuine and honest. She shared her heart . . . the joys, fears, sadnesses . . . She was real, and that "realness" will be missed . . . yet it can be perpetuated by those of us who were made "more" through her love of us. That is how we keep our loved ones alive. We do, as Breezy says, live worthy of the love with which they love (in the present tense) us . . . and in so doing, we bring value to our own lives and the lives of those whom we touch.
Bless your HUGE heart, Dakota. Thank you for your honesty, your kindnesses and your love.
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