And then she informed me the room in the hotel they want for the wedding and reception will cost $21,000.00 What the heck is she smoking? "But that's for a three course meal Mama" I catered my own wedding, handled the "valet' parking my self. Bought all the wine and champagne glasses for a few bucks more than the rental charge and got to keep them when it was all said and done! I'm still breakin' em! I'm down to my last carton! Am I being unreasonable? I am a widow... There's no daddy to go to the hip here!